From: Bodie (mclarkc@essex.ac.uk)
Date: Wed Jan 16 2002 - 02:31:08 MST
Thanx, I'll certainly try. I'm not planning on marrying the woman, but I
do want to be a big part of the kid's life. I do love her in a way, but
she's more like a good friend than someone I can see myself living with.
We agreed it worked better that way. I'm certainly not going to run away
from it all, and I do intend to finish at uni and hopefully get a good job
where I can be a good dad.
On Tue, 15 Jan 2002, BIll Roh wrote:
> Well Well - Congrats are in order for you too! Congrats! My advise to you is simple. If the
> woman intends on having your child, which at this stage looks probable, then choose to enjoy
> it. He'll need you, your blossoming wisdom and your strength of character. In the long run
> though, you need to be the best man you can be, and that does mean finishing school.
>
> Are you going to marry the woman? Do you love her? The first answer, IMO, should be the same
> as the second.
>
> And last: love your son. It's easy to raise a child you love day in and day out - every day
> is better than the last
>
> Good Luck
>
> Bill
>
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